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[SafetyOfficer]

I never thought I would take my mother's advice on anything to do with sex, but sure enough, the day came when I needed to talk to my partner about condom use.

I did not expect it to be pleasant. I was waiting to hear his cries of protest, waiting for a fight. His pleasure would be gone! The romance would be killed! Fortunately, I was completely wrong.

My boyfriend was just as adamant as I was about using condoms, and to this day, protecting ourselves is an important part of our relationship. We always split the cost of buying condoms, and if there isn't one available, we simply don't have sex. We've made these decisions together, and in the long run, it has brought us closer as a couple. We are able to talk openly, ask each other questions and feel secure knowing that we each want the other to be safe.

[Incegnact]

Yay I feel normal to be a virgin at 20 lol
Eh I think its normal its good that you wait longer.. I dont think I would wait unti marriage if the opportunity arises, but knowing myself that wont happen.

its the part about relationship that I am abnormal.

[jada]

I am glad you have so conscious partner, SafetyOfficer. In my case everything is not so perfect. My bf refuses the use of condoms, i even tried to put condom on his organ with my mouse (i read it helps to avoid bf's resistence) but it didn't work. Dunno what to do...

[ChineseGuy]

Ok good idea... The agreement is: no condom = no sex...

[rohmstephanie]

Thanks for the message you have provided guys.,